I deserve an easy life and so do you. Black women deserve ease, joy, peace and fulfilment.
Read MoreHow are you? No Really…
Read MoreI didn’t want to be here anymore.
Read MoreI feel. And I probably feel more than I want to sometimes. And I empathize. And I empathize so much so that your pain and your joys become my own.
And I LOVE that about myself.
It’s hard. Being human… and being a creative human can be downright torturous.
Read MoreWhen asked, "What do you do?" or "Who are you?", we immediately rattle off a long list of job titles and responsibilities. We are even tempted to believe that our identities are wrapped up in what we create. So I ask you... Do You Know Who You Are?
I struggled and still struggle to this day with low self-esteem and low self-worth. Like a lot of people, I was bullied as a child and suffered a lot of heartache and abandonment growing up and going through life. I was mistreated by friends and family and had my heart broken a few times by some of my closest friends and had my heart shattered by exes. Their words were all I could hear about myself. How they treated me was how I measured my self worth. I wasn’t beautiful. I wasn’t talented. I wasn’t worth it. I wasn’t worth staying around for. I was a joke. I wasn’t loved.
Read MoreI believe the things that we are sometimes ashamed of, embarrassed about and insecure about are the very things that make us so unique. I believe that they are also the things that help us find those safe places to be accepted and loved.
Sad Songs Save Lives.
I believe that with everything in me.
Even though a melancholy song or story may not offer you solutions or healing, the mere fact that someone else can express what I cannot, the fact that someone says "I understand you"... that alone can help someone hold onto hope a little while longer.
Read MoreThough shaking off dead things can hurt, the freedom to live in afterwards will make it all worth it.
Read MoreI'm not waiting to heal before creating. I'm creating as I'm healing. And honoring those broken and hurting places. And it feels so good.
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