Black Women deserve good things; build a life on your own terms w/ @Picky Girl Travels the World ​

"you deserve good things". This refreshing and uplifting conversation with Black woman Expat Adalia Aborisade (or @Picky Girl Travels the World ) is a love letter to Black Women to be intentional about building a life you actually LOVE on your own terms. She has built a life on her own terms STRESS FREE in Mexico City. We talk about things that should be daily mantras like; don't stay around for things that doesn't serve you, leave jobs when you're ready to go, love yourself enough to choose yourself, choose yourself before you lose yourself, don't stay in a bad marriage longer than you should and SO much more.

Whether talking about advocating for yourself in work spaces, learning how to use your money to live a life you love, leaving the United States, freeing yourself from debt or dealing with shame as a Black woman, I know everyone who listens will be able to take something away from this conversation.

"(Adalia helps) Black women gain the financial confidence needed to master their money so they can move abroad, travel the world, or whatever their heart desires."

SUPPORT and FOLLOW ADALIA:

💛 Her YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/PickyGirlTravelstheWorld

💛 Her Website: https://pickygirltravelstheworld.com/

💛 Get Her Ultimate Move Abroad Checklist: http://bit.ly/Move-Abroad

💛 Her Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEY3LY7BLBz-ZMCHSufnF-UT0jT7p40La

💛 Her Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pickygirltravels/

▬ Contents of this video ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

00:00 Intro

00:14 Welcome Adalia - Picky Girl Travels the World

00:58 How Survival in Childhood Shapes our Worldview and Dream space

04:55 Study What You Want to Study

09:08 Being a Black Woman in Education

15:27 Leave What No Longer Serves You

17:24 Choosing Yourself and Starting Over

20:57 Why Black Women Stay Longer Than They Should

23:52 How to Navigate and Deal with SHAME as a Black Woman

26:30 What does it mean to be FREE? What does it cost?

28:40 Navigating Relationships as an Expat

30:34 Navigating Privilege Outside of the US

31:47 Life in Mexico vs Life in the United States

36:32 It's important to know yourself // The American Dream is Not One Size Fits All

39:34 Let's Talk About MONEY! - Resources to Make Changes in your life

43:54 DEBT is designed to keep you TRAPPED

47:13 Individualism in the US sets us up for failure

48:56 How Adalia Helps Black Women live the life they WANT

51:36 Money Gives You Options

55:31 You Deserve Good Things

56:45 Support and Follow Picky Girl Travels the World

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